How I Run 3 companies and Work Part Time: 2 Lists

I run three fast growing organisations, with in total 12 employees. None of them have been around for longer than three years, and all of them are growing double- or triple digits. As you can imagine, life doesn’t stand still.

I work part time. Why? Because I firmly believe we all need balance.

My partner has a high profile job, and we have two lovely children, eight and two years old. I also spend time in Sweden to see my father as much as possible, and to help with his care (he is a prostate cancer fighter).

How? Simple. One simple but crucial rule… and the lists of things I do, and things I’ve decided to stop doing.  But first:

The Rule: No guilt. Ever. I am where I have chosen to be, and guilt has no place.

List of things I do:

  • Drop off and pick up at school most days
  • Uninterrupted playtime with kids between 17-19
  • Share 50/50 with the kids’ father (it is 2016. Par for the course. Come on.)
  • Mow the lawn every Sunday.
  • Hire people who are brilliant and let them do their jobs
  • Maintain responsibility for hiring, new product development, finance and strategy.
  • Start every day by thinking “What is the thing I can do to make the businesses more successful today?”. And then I ACT on it. Relentlessly. Every. Single. Day. I don’t have time to fiddle around.

Click here to read why I sacked the sales rep

Things I don’t do:

  • Cook
  • Clean
  • Laundry
  • Work in the evenings or on weekends
  • Micromanage my staff
  • Have a gym membership (I sneak in exercise with the kids. I do awesome cartwheels by now)
  • Watch TV (apart from BGT!)

I am the first to admit that despite my fairly straight forward plans, it is far from perfect. I get distracted and enthusiastic (a couple of weeks ago I spent over 10 HOURS on making an App. Completely stupid. Not ever a GOOD app….!) and sometimes I read emails during my sacred Kid-Time, and almost always at bedtime. But I have to be proud when I look at the overall picture, because I can see it works. I spend quality time with my kids every day, and I get more done during my limited office hours than most other people I speak to.

Someone told me I was really lucky. I both agree and disagree. I didn’t get here by chance, and it took a while, so luck had very little to do with it. That being said though: I tremendously appreciate what I have.

If you work long hours, perhaps I can inspire you to get a better balance by prioritising harder too? Or if you have something that works better, please add your advice to the comments? Thanks, and thank you for reading.

 

Thanks for reading me. I blame any errors on being Swedish. (But do let me know so I can fix it!)